7 Years

by Kathy on December 1, 2011 · 4 comments

in Bereavement, Faith, Family, Grief, Healing, Hope, Infertility, Life, Loss, Love, Memories, Milestones, Pain, Peace, Time, Waiting

7 years ago today we experienced our first miscarriage.

7 years ago today we lost our pregnancy innocence.

7 years ago today our first dream of having another child close in age to our son died.

7 years ago today we tried to understand why.

7 years ago today we tried to accept what had happened.

7 years ago today we tried not to give up hope.

7 years ago today we believed that we could get pregnant again someday.

7 years ago today we believed that we would get to bring another child home.

7 years ago today we never imagined where our journey to expand our family would take us.

7 year ago today we hoped and prayed that someday we would have the family of our dreams.

7 years later the pain of our first pregnancy loss is still here, but its softer now.

7 years later we are able to appreciate some of the good that has come from our experience with secondary infertility and loss.

7 years later we are doing our best to be grateful for what we have without forgetting what we have lost.

7 years later we feel blessed and lucky for our family, just the way we are.

{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

1 HereWeGoAJen December 1, 2011 at 1:29 pm

Thinking about you today.


2 Jewels December 2, 2011 at 11:40 am

It's good that you can find the hope after such a difficult time. Gratitude really does beget healing.


3 Esperanza December 2, 2011 at 5:23 pm

Thank you for sharing this important date with us, and all you've learned since then.


4 loribeth December 4, 2011 at 7:53 pm



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