by Kathy on August 23, 2018 · 0 comments
in Anticipation, Background, Balance, Bereavement, Coping, Faith, Friends, Grace, Grief, Hope, Life, Listening, Loss, Love, Memories, Music, Odds, Relationships, Signs
For the longest time I didn’t understand what people meant, when they said that God would speak to them. I thought they literally heard a voice saying what direction to take in life, when they were struggling with an important decision or situation. In the spring of 1996 (my junior year of college), while traveling […]
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by Kathy on August 1, 2018 · 0 comments
in Bereavement, Communication, Coping, Decisions, Dreams, Family, Friends, Grief, Healing, Life, Loss, Love, Memories, Reality, Relationships, Sadness, Social Media, The Past, Time
“Elephants never forget…” That’s what his dad said, after giving me a cute stuffed animal elephant (not the one pictured here), that he and his wife/my old friend’s mom found for me while boot (a.k.a. garage/rummage) sale shopping the previous weekend. I’d told them when we first met about how I’d been collecting elephants, mostly […]
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by Kathy on July 30, 2018 · 0 comments
in Background, Before I Blogged, Bereavement, Cancer, Coping, Dreams, Friends, Gratitude, Grief, Journey, Life, Loss, Love, Memories, Music, Pain, Peace, Reality, Relationships, Sadness, Signs, Therapy, Time, Titanic, Triggers
I returned to therapy, after a few years off, in 2011. I was struggling with some difficult relationships in my life, as well as trying to make peace with the deaths of two loved ones, while also weighing the pros and cons of a big decision for our family. Those were the objectives I laid […]
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by Kathy on April 23, 2018 · 4 comments
in Baby Benson, Background, Bereavement, Blessed, Blogging, Change, Communication, Coping, Family, Friends, Gratitude, Grief, Healing, Hope, Journey, Life, Loss, Love, Memories, Milestones, Molly, Neonatal Death, Pain, Relationships, Time, Transitions, Writing
Sometime over the past week, after our Molly-girl’s birthday had come and gone, I realized that for the first time, in 10 years, I forgot to post my letter to her on our BabyBenson2008 CarePage after sharing it here on my blog. I felt sad about that, as we received so much support on our […]
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by Kathy on April 17, 2018 · 1 comment
in Bereavement, Birthdays, Blessed, Change, Coping, Family, Grief, Healing, Life, Loss, Love, Memories, Milestones, Molly, Neonatal Death, Siblings, The 17th, Time, Vacations
Happy 10th Heavenly Birthday, Molly Marie! Double Digits. Two candles (a one and a zero) this year at your grave, instead of on a birthday cake. How has it been ten years? So much time has passed since we held you. So much time has passed since you left this world. For so long, your […]
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by Kathy on October 2, 2017 · 0 comments
in Birthdays, Blessed, Family, Friends, Gratitude, Journey, Life, Love, Memories, Parenting, Relationships, School, Sean, Siblings, Time, Transitions
Stop the world Take a picture Try to capture To ensure this moment lasts We’re still in it, but in a minute – That’s the limit – and this present will be past ~ Sankoff and Hein (Come from Away) As you enter this second year of being a teen, I find myself wanting to […]
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